OK, what do Seth Godin and Robert Scoble have in common, other than being A-list bloggers? They're both great conversationalists.
Even though Seth doesn't allow comments, he allows trackbacks and does follow them and leave follow up comments – he even answers email quickly and promptly. Crazy man Scoble even has his cellphone number on his blog and he answers it! Hey, do either of you guys ever sleep :)
I recently interviewed Stephen Turcotte of Backbone Media and we had a great conversation about conversations. Blogs are about conversations, and Stephen believes the best bloggers tend to be great conversationalists.
The best conversationalists are always those who listen well. The hardest part for most of us is listening, not talking. Translated to the blogosphere, it’s easier to post than to keep up with what the other bloggers in your topic area are saying.
Listening, according to Stephen, involves finding and reading a lot of
blogs in your area of interest, in the area you blog about, and I
agree. It's like a gigantic searchable cocktail party. Blog search
engines can be an enormous help in finding like-minded blogs. So can
blogrolls of blogs in your area you’ve already found.
The blogosphere is dynamic and you had better expect your must read blog list to grow and evolve. Keeping up is hard to do!
Let’s say you’re a donkey blogger – perhaps a professional donkey
breeder blogging on issues of importance to donkeys – or at least
donkey owners. You can find other interesting donkey blogs by using the
blog search engines, as well as by following blogrolls, trackbacks and
comments on those blogs. You’ll learn what others are saying in the
donkeysphere, the part of the blogosphere focused on donkeys.
In your real world life, as a donkey dude, you’ll of course also get
valuable information about donkeys -– real world information shouldn’t
be discounted at all, and tends to mirror online information eventually.
So, how do we become a popular donkey blogger? Spend a lot of time
reading and interacting with other donkey blogs and bloggers. Look for
opportunities to add value to conversations. It'll take time, but
presumably you're passionate about donkeys, so you probably don’t
consider it all work!
The best bloggers do more than blog! They spend significant time
reading other blogs and otherwise interacting in the blogosphere.
Stephen is also working on a service named Scout to help bloggers become
better conversationalists by helping them listen more effectively, just
as search engines help users manage Internet data better by sorting and
cataloging it. Fascinating – might be JUST what we need to nudge some
great conversationalists – and potential great bloggers – into the
donkeysphere – errr, blogosphere.